逃避

无意中来到了詹仁波切的部落格，看了这篇题目为"Avoidance"的文章，真是句句入我心！

"When you create the karma not to like or avoid others, then it only increases our propensity not to like others more in the future. As our propensity not to like others is triggered, in the future, more and more we become easily frustrated with people. Our trigger points also increases. That would add to the tally of how many people we will not like as time goes on. The number of people we dislike will only increase in time leaving us alone, unhappy, angersome or bitter."
这就是我目前的生活写照……


"As you get older, do you like others more or less?"
不幸的是，我不喜欢的人越来越多，真的要好好自我反省了！


"So if you are always not around, then you will have to find other methods to compensate maybe with gifts, nice words, or other temporary methods. If you intend to catch up, then it is a lengthy process as not only do you have to learn what you left behind, but also take years to build trust up again. Trust is the one emotion that creates harmony and peace around us.  Even with gifts and extra catch up efforts, still people had to endure the suffering without you and they would lose respect for you in some measure perhaps. You have to make a choice. You have to do double perhaps to catch up."
所谓“冰冻三尺， 非一日之寒”啊！所以要挽回，诚意和时间当然少不了。


若欲阅全文，可按下面的链接。
http://blog.tsemtulku.com/tsem-tulku-rinpoche/inspiration-worthy-words/avoidance.html